A sweet thank you
It finally happened. If you hadn't heard or gotten an invite (or two) I finally set a date and followed through on having the grand opening party at the house to signify the end of this major project. Sure there are a few minor things left hanging out there, but whose house doesn't have those kind of issues? Mine for al intents and purposes is done in regards to asking throngs of people for help. I chose June 6th, 2009 for the final date making it two and a half years and one day from beginning to end. What an amazing ride it's been.
Two days before things were looking a bit hopeless. I think it was another example of me biting off WAY more than I could chew and another example of the people around me saving my bacon. I had spent two weeks busting tail trying to get things prepped and completed from having a garage sale and laying mulch in the back flower beds to starting to go through the MOUNTAINS of boxes in the third floor and hanging some pictures. I have to admit though that despite all my efforts to push and push and push, I was near the end of my rope and really needed help this time. I sent out an email and I was once again humbled by the response of help by friends and family. I had a onslaught of help from Elisha, Ryan, Shana, Dan J, his daughter, Lola K, Neil O, Randa D, Mary, Dan, my Brother Sean, Mom, Russ, Caryn, Case, Helen, Ron, Kirby, Kirby's friend Michael, Mark S, Uncle Al and I'm sure one or two more that I'm forgetting this late at night. I wish I had captured them all in pictures, but alas I didn't know where my camera was in the whole confusion. The night before the big party the crew and I were up past midnight putting on a final coat of paint in the third floor and cleaning like fiends. It was as much a dash for the finish line as I've ever known. I heard a few times from a few that were at the house less than 48 hours before the open and then at the open that the house was a completely different house for the Open and I completely agree. One of the coolest improvements and one that was nagging at my 'metal list' for some time was the completion of the wet bar and the basement bathroom plumbing. The first is now ready for service and the latter has already been tested with great success. Uncle Al was determined to get the sink in the bar hooked up come hell or high water and wouldn't you know that as the first guests were arriving Al cried out victoiuosly and with great pride put out the 'It's 5 O' Clock Somewhere' sign and we were truly ready for a party. I would have never have been anywhere close without the help of these folks and many, many others as well as all of the prayers that I know were being sent up.
Randa splits hostas/Lola sifts out rocks & weeds
Randa, Mary, Shana & Lola work hard for their ibuprofen
Shana waters the new plants/Completed new beds
Lola preps a bit more/Ed & Joyce let the light in!
Ed & Joyce cleaned ALL the windows/Ryan starts the 3rd floor bedroom paint
Sean takes on plumbing/Lola cuts the 3rd floor play room
Lola cuts in more/I lend a hand in painting
Dan J and his daughter help out LATE Friday
Believe it or not - the mess 24 hrs to go...
Even with all of this great help and support, I once again received an amazing gift on the last day that I still shake my head in disbelief of the generosity of the peole that surround me and the grace of the Lord. While I was to be out the afternoon of Friday, I happen to be around as some guys pulled up to the yard to install some sod. Huh - I hadn't ordered any sod and probably wasn't going until the following week. Turns out that My frined Mike M who (along with his two brothers Andrew and Nathan had helped install the sprinker system) had ordered - and paid for - the sod to be installed on the north side of the house where the dumpsters had made their mark for nearly 18 months! I was nearly brought to tears - seriously in a manly way of course - because it's one of those little details that to me makes a huge difference and really would make the open house a finished product. I still can't believe the surprise and generosity - thank you Mike.
The surprise crew starts up/Both sides of the driveway and front bed
That's A LOT of sod/Mike @ Andrew fix a few things
Making things smooth/Almost done with the fix
Back and forth/and then do it again to be sure
Completed beds look better with sod!
Oh did I mention the mulch in the last 72 hrs? - 30 cu/yd!
On to the main event - Open House 2009
The day started out a bit soggy and I was worried. THe Lord was in charge as always and had it completely under control. I had enough food, tables, chairs and gifts for nearly 300 people. It was a time where I really hoped folks would come back to see what the fruits of their labor helped to create, not at all for myself, but because I wanted to show them that I put to good use their time, efforts and gifts. It's not often that you get to see the finished product when you volunteer for a project and when it is possible it seems to wrap things up. I know a lot of people had taken great joy and pride in making my house so fabulous and I wanted to share that with them.
I could really go on forever saying how grateful I am for everyone's generosity and I'm trying to fight the urge to do so to keep everyone from boredom of reading the same thing over and over again. In my effort to try and reveal new information or ways that I see the Lord working in my life (or the world around me) I'd like to tell of a short story I heard over the past couple of days. My disclaimer is the usual that I in no way claim responsibility or credit, I am only a part of the picture and enjoy witnessing how wonderful it is to see the Lord work in everyday life. I recently heard that one of the young people that have worked at my house and in this case this person worked A TON at my house, decided that of all the fields of study to choose from in today's collegiate system, he'd like to look into architecture. While that's not amazing, what strikes me is that he chose to do so in part because of what he learned and experienced here at the O'Bannon Project. Working along side myself, others and his father, Kirby has found a new path in working with structures and building things that are both useful and works of art. I think that fits his personality and talents as there are many of both here at my home and many are due to his contributions. I have talked a little before in the blog about Kirby and his dad, and specifically the relationship between them that has grown over the past two years. In many ways their time together reminds me of the relationship I had grown with my father in college just before he died four months after my graduation. I was so fortunate to come to see my father as a friend and as a man that was my 'equal'. My dad and I had spent much of my teenage years bucking horns and I'm sure many around us thought that the day we came to respect each other as equals would have been decades in the future if ever at all. Yes, you might say I got his hard-headedness in spades and a lot of that was directed at him for many years. By the Lord's knowing and loving hand though, we moved through that and were able to come together as friends and I believe I loved my father far more when he died than I ever could have imagined because we had made that transition into knowing each other more deeply than just rule-setter/enforcer and rule-breaker/young buck. Not that I'm saying Kirby is me at that age, but I see that those two men are seeing each other more as equals in manhood and respect is a two-way street that often comes from God working on people's hearts, egos and tempers - at least that's what it took for my father and I. I guess in a very long and drawn out way, I guess I'm saying that God has allowed me to see another father-son relationship grow and because I know how much it meant to me to lose mine, it means that much more to see others gain it for themselves. God gives those kind of blessings and it buoys me more times than I think I allow others to know. Okay huge diversion from the point so I'll get back to it after these pictures.
Eating good food/then playing
Ellie with Big Uncle Jonny/Little ones eat too
Signing the book/Chatting it up and telling stories
Mom chats it up/The small group talks about what they worked on
friends, friends... and more friends
..and more friends...
..and more friends...
..and more friends...
..and more friends...
..and more friends...
..and more friends...
..and more friends. Seriously, I AM blessed.
It feels so good to be 'finished'. I was asked if there were any other things left on the list and I think there are really only two must-do items and one nice-to-have item. The have-to-do is residing the kitchen bump out - formerly known as the eat-in nook as there is a 3" gap between the existing siding and foundation not to mention holes where the windows used to be and the doors are now and the other is a new roof. Both are not horribly difficult as I've done more roofs than I care to count and the siding I've never done, but I'm sure is similar to a roof, just vertical. Yeah, I know a oversimplification I'm sure, but really not. If anyone out there knows how or better yet wants to show me how to install the siding - maybe a shake siding I'd love to talk with you. The nice-to-have is to extend the garage in the back where the concrete slab already exists and I'd just need to create the walls and roof for a 'shed' for the mower and such as I can only park one vehicle in the garage right now and am constantly tripping over things when I'm trying to find whatever it is I need at the moment. So not critical, but definitely a high nice-to-have that has a lot of function! I'm thinking to take a week or so before I dive into the next item of wiring the garage from the box, but I'm itching already to get that finished up.
Although I sent out a couple hundred invites and had only 150 or so people, I know many more helped and I would really like to extend my most heartfelt thank you to them. For many years I will be asked about this project and I will be thanking folks well into Ellie's middle school years and that still won't cover it all. If I run into you in the mall or at church or at the supermarket, I would really like to give you one of the measuring tapes or hammers that I had engraved to say thank you. I can vouch that you can never have too many good hammers or tape measures around the house. As I experienced (and even commented about in this blog a few times;-) throughout this project I would misplace or at least not be able to locate for a while my tape measures and hammers and having 'just one more' would've never been a bad idea. Plus, they're just really cool tools that all the losers want and the cool people have. So please stop me and ask me about them as I will have a box of them in my car for quite a while so that as I track you down I have one on the ready for you.
